Deep Connection by Honest Pick-Up
A course for men looking to enhance their lives with women

“I feel like I’ve got a cheat code. This course is completely indispensable." - Ethan, member of Stress-Free Dating, San Francisco
“About halfway through the program, I had the confidence to make the approach and start a conversation. One of these conversations actually led to me getting a girlfriend." -Matt G., recently “wifed-up” member of our program
"The Honest Pick-Up guys are awesome. They helped me become more confident and approach and talk to women easier than I've
ever done before. Now I feel
like I have a clear path forward to where I want to be with my
dating life.
" - Neil, New York
What's your story?
You walk into a bar feeling pumped. You had some drinks and you’re feelin good. You’re with a couple friends, there’s girls everywhere. Hope is in the air.
You see a pretty girl standing by the bar.
Should you talk to her? You’re not sure. You’re a little nervous. You’re searching for a way to make a move, but nothing comes to you. You look around. God, there’s so many people who’d see you get rejected. You don’t want your friends to see you get embarrassed.
On top of that you don’t know what to say to her.
What if you start a conversation and it falls flat?
So you hesitate. Frustration builds.
You position yourself closer to her.
You tell yourself you’ll have a couple more drinks, and then you’ll say hi.
Maybe you start to worry about your appearance or if you’ll come off as creepy.
After waiting around for a bit, you look back and your chance is gone. She’s talking to someone else.
You down your drink and go home feeling dejected.
Why is it so hard to just walk up and talk to her?
Becoming insanely comfortable
Now picture yourself in the same bar a few weeks later.
You see a girl you’re really attracted to. You want to meet her.
You walk over, smile and say hello. You know exactly what to say and how to start a conversation without any awkwardness or hesitation.
You make a couple jokes and suddenly you’re laughing and enjoying yourselves.
You decide you want to get to know her a little better so you advance the conversation.
Eventually you realize it’s the right time... so you ask for her number like it’s no big deal and return to your friends with a big, goofy smile on your face.
Killing the anxiety
Do you know the paralyzing anxiety of walking up to a beautiful woman and starting a conversation?
Maybe you have no idea what to actually say to her, so you end up saying nothing and regret it for the rest of the day.
Maybe you’ve had interactions fall flat and become so incredibly awkward you wanted to crawl under a rock and hide for a while.
Maybe the fear and anxiety has kept you from ever trying and you have little to no experience at all with women.
If any of these are true, keep reading.
Double your opportunities with women
Over the next couple months, you can remain stuck where you’re at. You can continue what you’ve been doing and try to achieve different results.
But it’s tough. If you don’t start practicing the right things, these problems could linger and slowly poison your dating life and your life in general.
We’ve seen cases (in others and ourselves) where the desperation can build and build. Which can lead to a ton of problems, like:
- Overcompensation
- Increased levels of anxiety
- Frustration and hopelessness
- Resorting to shady tactics and manipulation.
This stuff is difficult. If you’re inexperienced it can be damn near impossible.
Even if you’ve read all the books and know what you need to do; actually getting out there and doing it is a whole ‘nother ballgame.
If you don’t take control of the situation, these problems can haunt you for years.
They did for us.
Nick and I each spent over 15 years battling through these issues on our own.
That’s why we created:
Honest Pick-Up The Program
It's an exciting, step-by-step program to help you take action and start getting more opportunities with women.
"This program goes way deeper than all the traditional pick up artists
routines. No canned lines, negging, and all the other PUA stuff. Just
building honest, genuine connection with women. I believe any guy will
benefit from taking this program
." - Brandon, FL
We spent years taking courses and seminars, studying advanced methods and eventually coaching guys one-on-one.
Finally, that led us to compile our system into an online, video-course to time-efficiently help as many guys as possible.
Take advantage of our decade of experience and our time coaching guys like you through the ins and outs of the dating game.
We’ve heard all the questions that continually pop up.
How do I know if she's interested? When is it okay to make the move and how do I do it? I don't want to come off as the creepy, douche.
How can I be more masculine in conversation? Women don't seem to take me seriously.
How do I beat social anxiety and feel comfortable going up to talk to her (or anyone) in a public place with people watching?
We know the sticking points and what stands in the way of you actually achieving results.
And we can help you learn to approach women confidently, vastly improve your ability to have amazing conversations, and land the dates and girlfriends they’re looking for.
Even if you have very little experience.
Even if you get crippling anxiety around women you find attractive.
Even if you don't know what to do in those difficult "bold move" moments

“I was a guy with a simple goal. I wanted a girlfriend and I didn’t want to have to lie and be an asshole to get her. The program guided me through the entire process step-by-step. Nick answers everything honestly and puts in the genuine effort to help every step of the way. ” - Matt G.
Get more opportunities, capitalize on them
The reason I love our program is that it goes so much deeper than just interactions with women.
If you choose to give us a shot...
You’re going to change how you view yourself, learn what’s been holding you back, and how you can start taking action today, in small and manageable doses, to actually get you to stress-free and competent in your dating life.
Throughout the program, you’re going to build:
- A strong sense of confidence in yourself, knowing your unique strengths, and how to bring out your natural charisma and playful sense of humor (<--huge with women!)
- The ability to walk up to any girl, anytime and feel comfortable starting a conversation,
- Great conversation skills; how to not be creepy, how to think quickly on your feet, how to always have something to say,
and...
- Dating skills you’ll need through every step of the process (like what to text and Tinder!). You’ll learn where to meet tons of women, what to do on your first few dates with them, and how to take it from there.
Even if you've never had a girlfriend
Even if you don't really know where to start
Even if you know what to do, but you just can't seem to take action and do it
Maybe you lack experience, maybe you lack confidence in your approach and conversation, maybe you think you'll never be the guy who can talk to women effortlessly....
We don't buy it.
We've seen these issues firsthand and know precisely how to solve them.
The program is going to give you the knowledge and practical ways to build the skills you need to get dates and phone numbers, and eventually the girlfriend you want.
Maybe best of all, you’re going to start to enjoy the entire process.
The journey of finding women you connect, flirt with them without hesitation is fulfilling on deep deep levels. That's why we love teaching this stuff.
It doesn’t need to be a painful, stress-provoking process and we want to show you the roadmap on how to get there.
Let’s take a look at what you're going to get.
We’ve filmed structured, step-by-step videos that address the exact problems guys like you have in these areas.
They’re not random and we’re not guessing about what you need to know. Every video is tailored toward struggles we’ve actually gone through and our clients were fighting to overcome.
There’s also an exclusive discussion with a beautiful girl we met who’s sworn off dating because of all the mistakes guys have made with her. She can help you fix mistakes you may not even know you're making.
While you watch the videos, you’ll comb through three detailed PDF workbooks we’ve put together:
- The Guide to True Confidence; which includes all the info you need to start building unbreakable, rock-solid confidence. It has exercises, examples and case studies that are going to get you started and change the way you look at this stuff.
- The Guide to the Right Approach; which will show you the specific excuses you’re making to prevent yourself from approaching women you want to meet. It has a brand-new Honest Pick-Up Approach Framework that will give you a step-by-step guide to make sure you’re successful... each and every time.
- The Guide to Changing Your Conversation; which tackles the art of starting and continuing intriguing and interesting conversations. It leads you through every stage of conversation and gives real examples on how you can dramatically increase your abilities with just a few simple shifts. Everyone in your life and everyone you meet is going to start to notice these changes.

You'll also get access to our full Social Workout PDF Regimen, including a video breakdown of each exercise AND in-field video of us walking you through each step of the exercise.
Combined with the videos and our PDF workbooks, you’re going to receive unlimited email access to us. We’re going to any and all questions and solve any issues you’re having as you go through the course material.
We want to give the same amount of care to each person who buys this video course as we’d give to our one-on-one coaching clients.
Call it new-age, “digital coaching.”
We’ve hired coaches that cost us over $3,000.
We’ve bought video courses that range up to $2,000 and even higher.
That’s why, for over 40 videos, hours of footage, PDF workbooks, unlimited access, all designed to completely turn your dating life around IN THE MOST TIME EFFICIENT WAY POSSIBLE... we feel you’re getting a steal for $197.
If you finally want to take control and build the skills you need to become successful with women, then take action now.
And here’s the best part:
We’re going to take all of the risk away from you.
We offer you a 6-month, no-risk, money-back guarantee.
If you do the work, and show us that you didn’t receive the results you were looking for? Yes, we’re going to refund 100% of your money. And you can keep the bonuses.
That’s how much we want you to try out our system.
EXCLUSIVE: Inside the Course, you'll get access to a 1-hour video interview with a woman who you'd probably like to date (she's awesome) on how to take your "game" (aka your naturalness when meeting women, your charisma, and your connection) to the next level.
She shares exactly what works when meeting new women. Including:
- How to Meet and Talk to Her Without Being Creepy
-The Anti-Pick-Up Line to Use When You're Feeling Nervous
-The Most Natural Conversation Openers
-How to Use Physical Touch To Push The Relationship Forward

Here’s what our clients have said about us:
“Nick is the real reason to sign up for this program. He is excellent at tailoring his approach to focus on your direct areas of need .” - Matthew, Ohio
“Deciding to get help from Honest Pick-up was one of the best decisions I have made. They helped me learn that genuine connections with people are possible and are infinitely more valuable. I also learned that anyone can become good at this through consistent practice. Have faith that they can help you and don't be afraid to open up .” - B, London
“In every interaction I've had with them and the program materials, I've learned more and more about myself, and they've helped me integrate this knowledge with every social aspect of my life .”
“I used to overthink and hyper-analyze every situation and every possible outcome of how conversations with women would play out that I would be paralyzed before I could even start. They helped me focus on developing the right intentions and mindsets, and helped me realize that I was blind to what was right in front of me the whole time: being genuinely interested in learning more and women's values. Nick and Stephen connect with you on so many levels, and their empathic attention and devotion has given me the courage to finally live the life I've always wanted - and feel GREAT about it. ” - Ethan, San Francisco
Course Curriculum
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StartThe Fantastic Four Confidence Practice (4:29)
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StartThe Take Yourself On A Date Exercise (2:14)
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StartThe Shame Fab Five (how to get rid of your emotional stuff) (2:36)
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StartWhat's your most embarrassing dating failure? (Here's mine) (2:17)
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StartThe Next Day Brain Dump Strategy (how to get out of your head) (1:49)
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StartThe Try To Get Nervous Technique (how to beat social anxiety) (1:52)
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StartTraining Yourself to Succeed: The Pavovlian Conditioning Method (1:28)
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StartThe Guide to Real Confidence eBook
Frequently Asked Questions
Take a chance on our program, which is structured to get you:
- real experience with women
- feeling completely comfortable with yourself, ditching your “paralyzing anxiety”
- accountability you need to stop rationalizing and over-thinking, and to actually take action and have amazing interactions with women.
Working with us was what our student called “one of the best decisions he’s ever made.”
We’re confident it will be for you too.
Click below to try out the program risk-free, for $197.
It's not going to be around forever.
The course is only open for a limited time. We're not sure when it's going to open again.
I’ve stalled on buying courses before and ended up paying double the price a month later when I was stuck in the same spot.
Click below to take a shot on us. If you’re not satisfied, you can get a 100% refund within 6 months from today.
Every single one of our students has been extremely thankful they’ve taken our course.
Make an investment in yourself and take action today.
-Nick and Stephen
P.S. If you’re done hesitating and you want to make real changes and gain valuable experience with women, start now. This course is affordable, risk-free, and we’ve tested it with guys like you to make sure you get results.